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Reflections
Ensure that our ownneeds aremet
Discern your primary needs, and commu-
nicate fully what is important and valuable
to you in your relationships with friends,
family and partners. Do not compromise on
these to keep the peace or to hang on to a
relationship thatmay be destructive to you.
Donot say yeswhenyoumeanno
If your answer is “no”, then say “no”. If not,
your “yes”will be filledwith resentment.
Say “yes” only when youwant to give it
freely.
Be confident enough tobehumble
Be able to laugh at yourself, acknowledge
your flaws and failures, and accept that
they do not define you.
The bottom line is, though we may say
otherwise, we want people to like us. We
desire to be loved, respected and viewed
in a positive light.
I
t
is impossible to force everyone to like
us, and really, why wouldwewant that?
To be that person, youwould have to
change character every time you come
into contact with someone new. This
means that you do not stay true towho you really
are. Fireflyz shares some steps to take to attract
naturally attract wonderful people in your life.
Slowly let goof theneed for validation
Do not bemotivated by the opinions or others or
the desire for recognition. Be driven by what is
important to you andwhat you value.
The Power
Of Attraction
Embrace ahealthy lifestyle
Get some formof exercise daily. Eat
healthy foods that support your body,
not your emotions. Do this because you
respect yourself, not because youwant to
impress others.
Showpeople you care
Do not just say that you care. Show it in
ways that aremeaningful to them, not to
you.
Stopgossiping
Choose not to talk about others inways
that are openly or subtlety critical. Do
not share information that has been
entrusted to you in confidence for the
feeling of power or intrigue.
Trust your instincts andallowfor
experimentation
Get to know yourself and discover what
you enjoy and find exciting, even if you
have to fail a few times.
Accept others as they are
Begin letting go of judgments and criti-
cismof others. Focus on people’s strengths
rather than their faults. Learn to deal
with difficult peoplewithout diminishing
yourself.
Really listen topeople
Many people listen but do not hear. Really
listen to someonewhen they speak to you.
Let people know that you have heard and
understand.